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I Dislike ClassDojo – And What I Do Instead

I’ve gotten a lot of responses to my earlier post about how I Dislike ClassDojo.  Some have been explanation of how a teacher uses this tool in an effective way.  Others have wondered why I have singled out this tool and defended their use of it.  Still others have asked what I do instead.  Do I use reinforcement and consequences for behaviors?  How do I use them?

What I do is loosely based off of Love and Logic.  Here’s a poster of Love and Logic rules I found posted at TeachThought.com

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As far as reinforcements, I give positive verbal feedback all the time, but I don’t have a prize box or give special treats or parties or anything like that.  I’m of the opinion that there are certain things that are necessary and expected in polite and productive society, and you do them because it’s the right thing to do, not because you’re getting something special for it.  Think about it, as an adult, there aren’t many situations in which you get something extra just for doing what you were supposed to do, are there?

What about consequences?  Well, before I talk about consequences, I want to talk a moment about the intention behind the behaviors.  From what I’ve noticed, there are a few reasons why kids tend to do things that we’d rather they didn’t do:

  • They didn’t know it was a problem.
  • There was a misunderstanding.
  • Something else in their life has caused stress, anger, or sadness that makes dealing with difficult situations appropriately much harder then normal.
  • It was an impulsive response.
  • They’re testing their boundaries.
  • It was done maliciously.

Now, how I do things isn’t perfect, but my first step is to talk with the student and try to get a sense of the motivation behind their behavior.

  • If they didn’t know it was a problem or there was a misunderstanding, we talk through it, and that’s typically the end of it.  Some misunderstandings require a little more problem solving.  (One time last year a student asked if he could lick another child’s candy, and the candy owner misheard him.  He thought the kid asked to look at his candy.  Now, I don’t know who would want to let someone lick their candy, but I’m not six years old either.  The candy licking student replaced the candy with something from his Halloween stash the next day, and he had to throw away the candy he licked lest he think that was an acceptable way to get someone else’s snack.)
  • If it was impulsive (sometimes exasperated by other life events), we talk about ways to take a moment and consider your actions before actually doing or saying something.  Depending upon what they did, some sort or retribution may be in order.
  • For boundary testing and maliciousness, I give logical consequences to set the tone that such behavior will not be tolerated.

I also keep lots of records.  I have a notebook tabbed with student names, and make a quick note whenever we have one of these little talks about their choices.  If there is a consequence of any kind, I also record that.  I keep careful documentation for several reasons.  One reason is that I don’t want a student trying to pull the wool over my eyes.  I’ve overhead kindergarteners talking about how they work their teacher’s behavior system (a clip chart) so that they always end the day on a good note; they just do something good at the end of the day and it reverses any bad choices from the morning.  The “I didn’t know that was a problem” reason only works ONCE for a behavior.  If we talked about it in January and you do it again in February, well, you actually DID know it was a problem.  While I know everyone forgets, I think it’s less likely for a child to forget when we’ve had a one-on-one conversation about why that particular behavior is not acceptable than if we talk about it as a class.

I also keep documentation to see if something seems to be a bad habit or recurring issue.  If a behavior is repeated after we have had logical consequences because it was seemingly to test boundaries or to be malicious, I’ll often pull out a book with a similar problem and that student and I will talk about how things played out in the book, and how their problem was similar.  Sometimes this slightly removed perspective can be helpful in seeing their problem the way others see it.  If it’s an impulse control issue that seems to be a bad habit, we work out a way to help the student to notice the warning signs, and reduce or stop the behavior over time.  The plan we come up with would be dependent upon the problem and the student.

There are non-negotiable behaviors at every school, typically the types of things that would be illegal if an adult did them, that can’t be handled in this manner, but I’ve had success with handling most situations in this manner.

As far as notifying parents goes, I don’t tell them about every single tiny thing.  My rule of thumb is if we didn’t need to do anything more than talk about it, we handled it in the classroom and it wasn’t a big enough deal to write home about.  Any issue that resulted in some sort of consequence is something parents should be informed of, and I typically include the number of times that type of problem has occurred when I write about it so parents can make informed decisions about how they talk with their child at home.  I tell parents this at the beginning of the year, and have yet to have a parent who wants to know about every time I speak to their child.

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I Dislike ClassDojo

Look around Twitter, teacher’s blogs, and technology conferences and everyone is aflutter about how wonderful ClassDojo is.

Here’s the thing though; ClassDojo is just a high-tech behavior chart.

It has the ability to add points for behaviors you want to reinforce, and take away points for behaviors you want to stop, and gives you percentage graphs of “good” and “bad” behaviors.  It’a flashy behavior chart that does some math with the data you plug in.

I’m not a huge fan of giving rewards or punishments.  Both are their own brand of bribery, and students should do what is expected of them because it’s the right thing to do.  Not because they earn a sticker if they do, and they lose some of their recess if they don’t.

If you’re wondering how to get your class to behave, here are some better solutions than a behavior chart like ClassDojo:

  • Build relationships with your students.  If they know you care and really want to help, you will have earned their respect and they’ll be that much more willing to do what you ask or expect of them.
  • Be crystal clear about your expectations (even better if you gave valid reasons behind them), and stick to them.  Enforce your expectations, every time, by repeating the procedure until it is done correctly.  Expect it to take a lot of extra time upfront, but it will save tons of time all year once your class knows you will not accept less than their best.
  • Talk to your students about their choices when their behavior is unacceptable.  Try to get a sense of their motivation behind the behavior.  Was it just that they didn’t realize they were doing something they shouldn’t?  Were they testing boundaries?  Was it an impulsive response?  Was it malicious? (It happens, but in my experience, most kids don’t do many things maliciously.)  Use their motivation to guide you on how to handle the issue.  Talking about why something is unacceptable may be all a student needs.  For an impulsive response, helping to show a student how to take a moment and consider actions before doing something they may regret can be helpful.  Some situations may require some kind of consequence, and when that happens I prefer logical consequences (read my post about how classroom management has evolved for me over the years here.)
  • Remember that you are teaching human beings.  No one is perfect, and kids have had much less time to figure out what to do to be successful than you have.

You don’t have to take my word for it though, here are some other teachers who have blogged about firing their behavior chart and how it’s gone for them:

Miss Night at Miss Night’s Marbles

Matt Gomez wrote about his Reward Free Year

Edited To Add: I’ve gotten a lot of feedback on Twitter for this post.  Some has been in agreement, some has been other educators telling me about how they use ClassDojo for tracking all kinds of things without using it as a behavior plan.  I agree that with a little creativity, this tool can be used effectively for other things.  My issue with it is the intended purpose and how it seems that the majority of teachers use this tool: as a digital behavior chart.  If you have a different use for it, I’d love to hear about it!

Read my follow-up post: I Dislike ClassDojo – And What I Do Instead

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Being A Mom (of BOYS) Has Made Me A Better Teacher

Now, before you get offended if you aren’t a parent, I don’t think that only parents can be good teachers, nor do I think that mothers of girls are inferior in any way.  Also, many of these can absolutely be true with girls too, I’m just seeing them through the eyes of a mom of boys who is also a teacher.  Being the mother of three (yes, three) boys has certainly been an education in just what boys are like.

I used to get really annoyed when my students couldn’t sit still, constantly fidgeted with everything they could get their hands on, and more.  And honestly, I noticed that it was most frequently boys who fit this description.  As my oldest son ages, I have become much more tolerant and understanding of these behaviors.  Boys are different, and that’s ok.  I always knew that, but I feel like I have a much better understanding of that now, and that will only improve as my little guys grow.  This isn’t about giving boys a pass to do whatever they wish, but giving the largely female world of educators some information about boys.

Here are some things I have learned about boys from my sons (they are all 5 years old and younger at the time of writing this):

  • Boys need far more movement and action than I ever guessed!
  • ANYTHING can be transformed into a toy gun with a little imagination.
  • Boys (mine at least), want to be heroes.  Playing where someone is the hero means someone needs to be the bad guy, and there will be battles.  As a teacher, I don’t mind non-touching battles.  The moment there’s touching, that game is over for the day.
  • Given the right story (or non-fiction topic), boys can be mesmerized by a book too.
  • Sometimes boys need to cry too.
  • The words “diaper” and “fart” are hilarious. Use at your own risk.
  • Beware of loopholes in your rules and instructions.  (Don’t hit your brother in the face can be misunderstood as meaning it’s ok to hit other parts of his body since not hitting his face was specifically mentioned.)
  • The words “don’t” or “stop” preceding what you want them to quit doing only make them want to do whatever it was even more.  Instead of, “Don’t throw things!” try, “We put things down gently when we’re finished with them.”
  • The answer to the question, “Why did you _______?” is typically answered with either, “I don’t know,” or “Because.”  Often the real reason is either that it was an impulsive response that they didn’t think through, or it was just to see if they could do it.  If it was impulsive, he probably feels really badly about it, and he might be able to tell you where he went wrong and why he shouldn’t have done it, but (despite his promises to never do it again) he’s probably going to do it again…soon.
  • Automatic, impulsive responses are going to happen…a lot (especially with younger boys).
  • The reason to destroy something is either a) to see what’s inside,  b) to see if you can put it back together afterwards, or c) both.
  • Boys do things rather than talk about them.  That’s not to say boys won’t talk your ear off, but expect action to occur before any discussion about little things like getting permission for something.
  • If he knows you care about him and are trying to help him, a boy will move mountains for you.

I am certainly not saying that if a boy is being disruptive or disrespectful that you should say, “Boys will be boys,” and call it a day.  I’m merely sharing some of the things I’ve noticed happen with my sons to give you a little bit more insight on what many boys are naturally like.  Knowing where they’re coming from can help to give a little extra patience and help you to determine the best way to help him to do what he needs to, whether that’s getting his work accomplished, paying attention to the lesson, or treating his classmates appropriately.

My oldest son will start kindergarten next month, and I really hope his teacher is understanding of the fact that he is ALL boy!

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Evolution of Management in My Classroom

I just finished my tenth year of teaching in June, and I’ve been reflecting on how much things have changed since I entered my first classroom all those years ago.  One way I’ve changed a lot is in terms of classroom management.  Early on, I used to have the pocket chart with all those colored papers and one-size-fits-all consequences.  When a more logical consequence stared me in the face, I used it, but I dabbled in giving more logical consequences, and those are the ones I’ve found to be the most effective when one is necessary.

A few years ago, I was still using the same consequences across the board, but ditched my behavior chart for a notebook.  My consequences were in increments of 5 minutes of walking laps (walking a portion or all of recess was pretty much the standard consequence at that school at the time), and each time a student broke a rule that day, it added 5 more minutes of walking laps.  If they got to a certain point in a single day, they went to the principal.  There were one or two kids who carefully walked that line where they took things as far as they could without going to the principal, yet I felt ridiculous saying a student needed to go to the principal for the types of things for which they earned consequences.  It was disruptive, attention-seeking behavior, but nothing heinous or harmful to others.

After the experience with students very clearly working the system, I changed from keeping track of the issues of the day to whether an issue was something that occurred over and over again.  I used the same 5 minutes per offense, but if a student was disruptive to the point of earning a consequence, it was 5 minutes of walking laps the first time.  If it happened again a week later, 10 minutes of walking during recess.  At the start of each quarter, I wiped the slate clean for behavior, just as we do in the gradebook.  This worked a little better for some students, but others ended up walking nearly all of every recess every day, especially if it was near the end of a quarter.  I needed something different.

This past year I’ve used logical consequences paired with bibliotherapy.  I spent a lot of time at the beginning of the year (with reviews as needed) laying the groundwork for why rules are in place and how breaking them affects others.  When a problem arises, I had a private chat with that student about what they were doing, and why it can’t continue.  If that type of problem continued anyway, they earned a logical consequence and I notified their parents of that.  If it persisted, we moved on to bibliotherapy to help the student see how things played out for a character in a similar situation, and connected it to themselves.  The repetition of that type of problem could occur at any point over the course of a marking period.

There are still some changes I want to make for the coming year.  I want to do a better job documenting when the “friendly reminder” conversations occur, and whether it seemed that the student just didn’t realize what they were doing, didn’t know it was a problem, or knew, but chose to do it anyway.  I think that will be helpful in determining how to proceed.  Last year I had a lot of talks with students where I attempted to determine their motivation behind the behavior.  Unfortunately that is sometimes a difficult thing to figure out, but knowing whether a student did something because they didn’t realize it was a problem, because they were in a bad mood and that made it harder to control themselves, or they just didn’t care that it broke a rule often determined my response, but I didn’t always keep a record of it.  I also want to add a student-goal setting piece to this, but I’m not sure at what point to do it.  My initial thought is that if the problem occurs again after the bibliotherapy, that’s the time to recognize that this particular behavior is a habit.  I am also trying to decide whether resetting everything at the beginning of a new marking period is the best way to go.  On one hand, everything else resets at that point, and if a student struggles with a particular habit, making a goal and a plan to change that habit is going to be the best way to work with that student.  On the other hand, it isn’t exactly fair if a student has the same behavior issue 2 days in a row, but they happen to be the last day of the marking period and the first day of the new one, so they have a chat with me about it 2 days in a row when other students with less fortunate timing would have had a logical consequence on day two.  I think that if I’m going to reset everything, doing so after winter break is probably the best time to do it.  When we return to school in January, we always review rules and procedures because of the long break.  While it does not signify the end of a marking period for my school, I keep data, and can use the information from the correct dates before and after winter break to determine their behavior grade.

Overall, I’m hopeful that most issues can be resolved through discussion of rules and why are there, and private chats with students to help them see if something needs to change and why.  I like having a plan of action for how to handle it if a student repeatedly breaks a rule, but I’d rather not need to use them.

How do you manage your classroom?  How has that changed over the years?

 

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